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Post by Cuck_gmd on Feb 24, 2019 14:30:44 GMT -5
I personally don't wanna have kids, I want to focus on my career instead. Kids are kind of annoying and I think the world is overpopulated already. So I don't want to bring any more human beings on the planet lol.
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Post by Dragon on Feb 24, 2019 14:33:40 GMT -5
Eventually, when I'm ready to do so, I would like to have kids one day. I don't know when I will be ready, but eventually I would like to raise some.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 14:35:48 GMT -5
really don't want to have kids, especially since i'm not that good mentally to be able to support any children i theoretically might have
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Post by burrito1 on Feb 24, 2019 14:47:40 GMT -5
No. I don't want to be sleep-deprived for years, I don't want to make everyone around me deal with my screaming kid, I don't want to deal with all the baby stuff (constant crying, stubbornness, etc), I want to have free time, I would have no idea how to be a good father, I don't want to risk having twins or triplets because that would multiply the awfulness, there are a scary amount of disorders I could pass on to them, I probably won't even get married in the first place, and we have enough people on the planet already.
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Post by Swifter on Feb 24, 2019 14:51:19 GMT -5
Eventually when I get married.
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Post by pearl3scent on Feb 24, 2019 14:54:16 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 15:02:44 GMT -5
Absolutely not. Babies are ugly, disgusting, annoying and terrible crying lumps of fat that are a pain to even be around. To raise one would truly be a nightmare. There’s a few points people use to counter this way of thinking. The first is ‘well you used to be a baby’ but to that I say YES, I too was an ugly, disgusting, annoying and terrible crying lump of fat. The second thing people say is that I’ll change my mind once I have kids. But I don’t really plan on dating any girls in my life ever so there’s that.
Maybe I’ll adopt like a 9 or 10 year old some day if I feel like it but there’s no way in hell im having any kids of my own.
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Post by Zirphynx on Feb 24, 2019 15:03:14 GMT -5
I don't know yet
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Post by Luxi on Feb 24, 2019 15:58:28 GMT -5
It really depends on how my life is at the time. If I would be frequently away for work or some other commitment I wouldn't want to leave the burden of raising kids on their own to my spouse. Conversely, I wouldn't want to raise kids on my own either. Other than that I wouldn't be opposed to it, but I wouldn't be pushing for it and it would be mostly up to the opinion of my partner.
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Post by KneeVan on Feb 24, 2019 16:15:30 GMT -5
I would like to have kids at some point. I want to be able to watch them grow up and be able to have great memories with them like I have with my family.
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Post by Ezel on Feb 24, 2019 17:09:19 GMT -5
I don't really know. Currently I don't want to have kids even if I eventually would have a girlfriend/potential wife. The main reason is that taking care of a baby takes insane patience and I don't really want to be that kind of parent who thinks about something first but then the kid seems to get some sort of unfair treatment just because I lost my patience to be able to take fully care of it.
It's not that I have no experience or that I hate taking care of someone/something. I have pets which I love but the difference is that it's much easier to meet their needs and you don't pay as much money for them which is another problem for me. I don't have the best financial situation so it'd be really hard for me to afford stuff for a baby.
Maybe if my life situation changes, maybe I will change my mind, but that's not gonna happen anytime soon. I just think that it's better for my mental health for now - I have a lot of problems that are my priority and they already hinder my motivation, so I'd rather not have something that would increase my anxiety even more.
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Post by WillFlame on Feb 24, 2019 17:42:04 GMT -5
I would like to have kids, and I'd probably go out of my way to have them (i.e. make work more flexible, drop certain projects). Teaching is one of my favourite things to do and I think it's an amazing feeling to watch someone grow and succeed because of your efforts. I've worked with young children at a math tutoring centre and have volunteered at my local science centre in the past, so I know that dealing with kids can definitely be annoying at times. But the feeling that I was able to visibly impact someone's life, whether it was just making a cherished memory or teaching them a useful concept, is invigorating.
This might sound self-centered, but I think my kids could definitely become people that I want to see in the world. Although that's kind of a vague and lofty goal, I think it's worth it to take the chance and try my best to take care of my children and make them the best people they can be. Plus, I'm fascinated by the idea that I could create something sentient, that could think on its own and become something better than me. I already have an interest in computer programming and arts/crafts where I'm (mostly) only limited by my imagination, but a human being that can think on its own (although influenced by me) is a whole new level.
My views change a lot over time though, so maybe 10 years from now I'll think differently.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 18:04:58 GMT -5
havent really decided about my future yet
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Post by durianhead on Feb 24, 2019 19:30:57 GMT -5
first off idk man as someone who is autistic idt it'd be very responsible of me to potentially pass that on to the next generation.
probably a no from me because of that alone, but massive respect for the people who do decide to take up the commitment of having kids. especially in today's society where raising a child is expensive as fuck. hell in singapore the average cost of raising a child now is anywhere from 700k to 1mil, which is a ludicrously high sacrifice. i can't imagine raising one kid right now, let alone three or four, especially on the salary of the career path i'll be heading in.
and in many ways i think that's what's actually causing people to go "hm maybe i shouldn't do the unprotect sex and have baby" - opportunity cost. because having a baby / kid means sacrificing so many next-best alternatives; both in time, money and emotional investment. it's a shared burden which for now i'm definitely not responsible enough to do my part for. all my respect for the people who do though, they're the ones doing the hard work keeping our species alive and kicking
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 20:32:27 GMT -5
No idea. I doubt I'd be a good father.
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